Don't be serious, be sincere

Don't just have career or acedemic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balance before successful. Balance means ensuring your health, relationship,mental peace are all in good order. There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions. Life is one of those races in nursery school where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same is with life where health and relationship are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die. One thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. Life is not meant to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid cards with limited validity. if we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up? It's ok, bunk a few classes, scoring low in couple of papers, goof up a few interviews, take leave from work, Enjoy with your friends, fall in love, little fights with your loved Ones. We are people, not programmed devices. Don't be serious, be sincere

The freaks day out - Finally

Yeah true! after a long long time the freak in me has been pulled up. Swati! credit goes 2 u sweet-heart.

Day started with lazy wake up call 4m a friend....that made me remember the day's schedule. with a late saloon message and grooming finally me n sunil are out on roads.... with minor bike repair points n then as-usual....i have Broken an another cell phone....repair of my mobile.....with a Chai in a ghada!

A pick up point of swati...led us to Tipsy-Topsy (The one bakery which i love most) Heavy cheese burger n some drinks n lots of gala time....with garnish of Sunil's regular counter punches. Hmm time 4 a movie "I HATE LUV STORYS" hooop hoop but show's time is 3pm and it's jus 12:00 noon, sooo Ohris at lake front was the idea.....great fun n finally show time.... hhehehe (I cant even express the load of fun we had at Ohris)

N the final zing of the day was fun! isn't Swati? Thank Sunil 4 that fun.

Venu Ragam

Wind so fresh blowing its mystic scent
like that very old perfume,
A fresh feel deep from heart
like that seed's first fresh leaf.

The old tree swing.

Time when u feel ur lost, for a long time, soo long that u have forgotten ur fundamental base-line, on which u have built ur life so far. Such moment inn.... even the "stone cold men" feel LOST. Yeah the real deep meaning of LOST.

I was in this crucial juncture n made my self totally a half dead and the other half? something else!

Child in a swing forgets everything he jus lives the moment of joy, delivery by that extreme heights of SWING. Same thing happened - almost.... which gave me, myself back..that's the bliss of "the old tree swing".

The mantra is.."YOUR happiness lies in ur hands" in a sense,the mantra boils down to analyzing what ur assets are, how you can maximize them n how you can play down your weaknesses. In my lingo, that is called SWOT analysis which is an abbreviation for Strengths, Weaknesses,Opportunities and threats.
That critical assessment is not the end. It is to b benchmarked against what u wish to be. And therein lies the rub. All of must have aspirations but the key to the modicum of contentment is to c that it is in lines with our findings of SWOT. We can certainly leverage our strengths n try hard to excel in life.....like that swinging child on that old tree.

Soul curry session! --over the cliff edge

Hmm....since long time,something was bugging my mind - unclear, making me restless all day long, stopping me from doing anything n every thing. Things started becoming very complicated even that simple daily works...my mind more n more unstable-totally. Making me feel bad (for what? god knows) an enigmatic energy sink driving away all my energy.

Music? feeling bored
Chatting with pals? making me more lifeless
a trek to forest? -- no way in mood.
At-least a self hypnosis session?...am falling in sleep in middle of session.
Hang-out with my girl? haaaa she will kick me if i comment here..hope u gt my point.

What the F**king hell is happening to me?

Maintaining the same tempo almost for a month suddenly one day..
After a hectic workout at office..on way back to home...a flash hit my dum brain

Am missing that introspective soul curry sessions. yup....that usually get's me the fuel dose required.

lee me c...is this gonna get me back the zing in my life..okkie..dockiee...am going an a cliff now, to cook..........................soul curry.

How to Name It?

Back to da ground state energy levels;
Wht to name da one who is enigmatic? a fool? coz just we dt understand that?
in that case..every thing beyond reach of imaginations or knowledge is falthu....

How to name a situation where we just dt knw how to react?
How to name it when things r just nt in control? being silent is a good answer
what to name a simple situation which looks funny for one and da same is a serious matter?
The philosophical rules say: take view of da subject in all possible different angles.

bottom line: Every action has a reason.

Love Chemistry!

Hey! Hi to everybody! Almost after 6 months am back in blogging, thanks to VK n D3 who inspired me to get back on track.

Let's get in to the post now! "Love" this word, makes everyone swing n float in there own world. Some has that stomach bubbling happy stories & some (I mean most of them) has that same old sagas in Love.

On Valentines day, i was in my village "Mantralayam" with totally spiritually zinged mood and in that moment,i got a call from my old pal..The moment i picked the call he asked "Whassup Naren! what's ur plans for the day?" n ....i gave a smile (A typical smile with a unique blend of vairagya and spirituality)i said him.... Mannnn......grow up! there is nothing like love n nothing like special lovers day.....

n he asked me WHY? (with a big curiosity to knw why i spoke like that)

I said its just Chemistry not love....(Like Every thing is maya..)

Question: Is There Really a Chemistry of Love?

My answer Like a Big GURU/Baba: I don't think there are any magic love potions that you can use to make someone fall in love, but chemistry does play an important role in how a relationship progresses. First, there's attraction. Nonverbal communication plays a big part in initial attraction and some of this communication may involve pheromones, a form of chemical communication. Did you know that raw lust is characterized by high levels of testosterone? The sweaty palms and pounding heart of infatuation are caused by higher than normal levels of norepinepherine. Meanwhile, the 'high' of being in love is due to a rush of phenylethylamine and dopamine. All is not lost once the honeymoon is over. Lasting love confers chemical benefits in the form of stabilized production of serotonin and oxytocin. Can infidelity be blamed on chemistry? Perhaps in part. Researchers have found that suppression of vasopressin can cause males (voles, anyway) to abandon their love nest and seek new mates. Hey, you gotta have chemistry!

The moment i finished my gyan bhodan....the next word 4m him: ....ya ya ur true...and he hanged the call giving an excuse "Hey i'll call u in a moment man, gt another call"

To summarize...how many of u think that, love is really a magical thing
or just, a body chemistry?