Hey! Hi to everybody! Almost after 6 months am back in blogging, thanks to VK n D3 who inspired me to get back on track.
Let's get in to the post now! "Love" this word, makes everyone swing n float in there own world. Some has that stomach bubbling happy stories & some (I mean most of them) has that same old sagas in Love.
On Valentines day, i was in my village "Mantralayam" with totally spiritually zinged mood and in that moment,i got a call from my old pal..The moment i picked the call he asked "Whassup Naren! what's ur plans for the day?" n ....i gave a smile (A typical smile with a unique blend of vairagya and spirituality)i said him.... Mannnn......grow up! there is nothing like love n nothing like special lovers day.....
n he asked me WHY? (with a big curiosity to knw why i spoke like that)
I said its just Chemistry not love....(Like Every thing is maya..)
Question: Is There Really a Chemistry of Love?
My answer Like a Big GURU/Baba: I don't think there are any magic love potions that you can use to make someone fall in love, but chemistry does play an important role in how a relationship progresses. First, there's attraction. Nonverbal communication plays a big part in initial attraction and some of this communication may involve pheromones, a form of chemical communication. Did you know that raw lust is characterized by high levels of testosterone? The sweaty palms and pounding heart of infatuation are caused by higher than normal levels of norepinepherine. Meanwhile, the 'high' of being in love is due to a rush of phenylethylamine and dopamine. All is not lost once the honeymoon is over. Lasting love confers chemical benefits in the form of stabilized production of serotonin and oxytocin. Can infidelity be blamed on chemistry? Perhaps in part. Researchers have found that suppression of vasopressin can cause males (voles, anyway) to abandon their love nest and seek new mates. Hey, you gotta have chemistry!
The moment i finished my gyan bhodan....the next word 4m him: ....ya ya ur true...and he hanged the call giving an excuse "Hey i'll call u in a moment man, gt another call"
To summarize...how many of u think that, love is really a magical thing
or just, a body chemistry?
LOve is chemistry!! hmmm... well might be True in some sense!! but thats a tough cookie to digest!!
ReplyDeleteLove is a mix of all the subjects and feelings probably existing on the earth.... :)
I strongly believe Love exists...
By what ever means you name it as...!!
LOVE is like luck.you have to find all the way by yourself no matter how you feel for it or how you define it.Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love hopes for the positive aspect of life. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. now if you say that you dont believe in love now neither one can believe in mothers love as well.i do acceot that love between two individuals start off with an infactuation but it doesnt mean tht love born out of it is not true.like a bike has its own mechanisms still a kick start is needed to it by a human in order to start its own mechanism.all the scientific terms may be ryte but boss one thing i sthat we are ordinary humans and we all would like to accept life and the parameters as it comes than catching hold of life and moulding it according to our own will. life becomes easy when we go according to it and the highest nature of tolerance and acceptance is very essential nature of life.LOVE is truth of being what you are and getting adjusted accordinglywith all affection and sacrificing few things which you know cd bring misequations bewtween two.Now thats what i called love .After all when i say LOVE is truth that means in away that truth cannot be taught it can only be learnt.as far as am concerned LOVE includes Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion.Most imp thing is compatibility. obviously two strangers come and fall in love with infactuation only and then if both are compatible enough then it goes into longterm relation and to marriage..provided all above qualities should be there in both the individuals.one sided love or committment also never works.last but not least the golden string which you often term it trust is the most essential part for any relation. not a conditional trust .trust is 100%.hmmmmmmmmmm where there is GOD there is evil ,where there is light there is dark and where theer is LOVE ther is hatred.you can hate love when you have loved it .remeber no person is perfect but still life goes on
ReplyDeletehey Chitra! Tanx 4 ur comment/essay....it's interesting but, I still have my stand.
ReplyDeleteLove Chemistry! Aaah...Interesting...but i thnk love is a chemical reaction for guys (strongest initial reaction at the time of contact & faltering out with time) while its a growing emotional reaction (at an increasing rate)in the case of gals :P
ReplyDeleteThanks VK, I totally agree with u.
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