Friday, February 19, 2010
Hey! Hi to everybody! Almost after 6 months am back in blogging, thanks to VK n D3 who inspired me to get back on track.
Let's get in to the post now! "Love" this word, makes everyone swing n float in there own world. Some has that stomach bubbling happy stories & some (I mean most of them) has that same old sagas in Love.
On Valentines day, i was in my village "Mantralayam" with totally spiritually zinged mood and in that moment,i got a call from my old pal..The moment i picked the call he asked "Whassup Naren! what's ur plans for the day?" n ....i gave a smile (A typical smile with a unique blend of vairagya and spirituality)i said him.... Mannnn......grow up! there is nothing like love n nothing like special lovers day.....
n he asked me WHY? (with a big curiosity to knw why i spoke like that)
I said its just Chemistry not love....(Like Every thing is maya..)
Question: Is There Really a Chemistry of Love?
My answer Like a Big GURU/Baba: I don't think there are any magic love potions that you can use to make someone fall in love, but chemistry does play an important role in how a relationship progresses. First, there's attraction. Nonverbal communication plays a big part in initial attraction and some of this communication may involve pheromones, a form of chemical communication. Did you know that raw lust is characterized by high levels of testosterone? The sweaty palms and pounding heart of infatuation are caused by higher than normal levels of norepinepherine. Meanwhile, the 'high' of being in love is due to a rush of phenylethylamine and dopamine. All is not lost once the honeymoon is over. Lasting love confers chemical benefits in the form of stabilized production of serotonin and oxytocin. Can infidelity be blamed on chemistry? Perhaps in part. Researchers have found that suppression of vasopressin can cause males (voles, anyway) to abandon their love nest and seek new mates. Hey, you gotta have chemistry!
The moment i finished my gyan bhodan....the next word 4m him: ....ya ya ur true...and he hanged the call giving an excuse "Hey i'll call u in a moment man, gt another call"
To summarize...how many of u think that, love is really a magical thing
or just, a body chemistry?